emotionally unavailable men, dating advice for women

He Relishes Your Attention But Could He Ever Love You?

Article I wrote for YourTango.com:   He returns your text messages. He calls you back. He takes you up on invitations to spend time together. He eats your cooking and humbly accepts your gifts. Maybe he even admits that he deeply cares for you. But, he gets an ‘F’ for effort.   If you don’t […]

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Goddess Love Help: Drinking Responsibly On Dates

Drinking responsibly on dates is a must.  It’s obvious advice and yet so few of us follow it.  Why?  Why do many of us ignore these sage words of wisdom of first date etiquette and guzzle anyway?   Here are 3 reasons why drinking responsibly on dates goes out the window… while the vodka gees […]

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When Men Stop Calling

Article I wrote for digitalromanticinc.com: . He was once head-over-heels for you and now he’s heeled it out of there, nowhere to be found.  I’ve been right where you are quite a few times and it always hurt like hell.  The self-doubt, the analyzing and rehashing of each moment of every date trying to figure […]

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Date Night Beauty Regime: Removing The Mask

Photo: Silvana’s Skin Care spa (SilvanaSkinCare.com) As a dating and relationship coach my tools and techniques mostly involve working with women from the ‘inside-out’: finding a way to get closer to a man by getting closer to yourself and changing your thoughts. Sometimes however it helps to work from the ‘outside-in’.   A Calvin Klein […]

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Dating Advice For Women: Knowing When To Be Optimistic About Love

Pop psychology loves to pump people full of romanticized faith:  poetic photographs with quotes preaching positivity on friends’ Facebook pages; the word ‘hope’ carved into pocket-size stones and spelled out in rhinestones on hundred-dollar bracelets.  And why not?  Why not encourage a little optimism, especially in love?  With a dismal divorce rate and couples having […]

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He Lost Interest. Now What?

Article I wrote for BlackLoveAdvice.com:   If your relationship has done a 180 and you are now pursuing the man you love instead of being adamantly pursued by him, I know exactly how you feel.  I dated a few guys who went from in love to missing in action.  If he lost interest in you, […]

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Things You Can Do To Attract True Love Online

Guest Post: For those venturing into the world of online dating for the first time, it may seem scary and difficult – how can you know whether the person on the other end of the emails is going to be the same person as you meet in real life? The short answer is you don’t […]

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How To Fix Unhealthy Relationship Patterns

If you’re scanning this website you’re probably not happy in your love life.  And you’re probably very angry with men as a result.  Maybe a man who you thought was one of the good guys recently dumped you.  Maybe your husband cheated on you and you aren’t sure if you’ll ever be able to forgive […]

long distance relationships

I’m Freaking Out & Reading Into Everything

Here’s a letter written to me from Claudia, who is in a long distance relationship; however, any of us in local relationships could also be in her shoes.   Hi.  I can’t tell you enough how thankful I am to have just bought your program.  My circumstance is very common, I think.  I am freaking out […]

dating advice for women

How To Respond When He Needs Space

An article I wrote for YourTango.com: Is the man you love acting like a ghost in your relationship?  Maybe he’s even vocalized that he needs space? Perhaps he claims nothing’s wrong, but he just doesn’t return your texts and seems to be a whole lot busier than he was in the early stages of dating?   Before you […]