drinking responsibly on dates, dating advice for women

Goddess Love Help: Drinking Responsibly On Dates

Drinking responsibly on dates is a must.  It’s obvious advice and yet so few of us follow it.  Why?  Why do many of us ignore these sage words of wisdom of first date etiquette and guzzle anyway?   Here are 3 reasons why drinking responsibly on dates goes out the window… while the vodka gees […]

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Date Night Beauty Regime: Removing The Mask

Photo: Silvana’s Skin Care spa (SilvanaSkinCare.com) As a dating and relationship coach my tools and techniques mostly involve working with women from the ‘inside-out’: finding a way to get closer to a man by getting closer to yourself and changing your thoughts. Sometimes however it helps to work from the ‘outside-in’.   A Calvin Klein […]

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Dating Advice For Women: Knowing When To Be Optimistic About Love

Pop psychology loves to pump people full of romanticized faith:  poetic photographs with quotes preaching positivity on friends’ Facebook pages; the word ‘hope’ carved into pocket-size stones and spelled out in rhinestones on hundred-dollar bracelets.  And why not?  Why not encourage a little optimism, especially in love?  With a dismal divorce rate and couples having […]

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He Lost Interest. Now What?

Article I wrote for BlackLoveAdvice.com:   If your relationship has done a 180 and you are now pursuing the man you love instead of being adamantly pursued by him, I know exactly how you feel.  I dated a few guys who went from in love to missing in action.  If he lost interest in you, […]

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How To Fix Unhealthy Relationship Patterns

If you’re scanning this website you’re probably not happy in your love life.  And you’re probably very angry with men as a result.  Maybe a man who you thought was one of the good guys recently dumped you.  Maybe your husband cheated on you and you aren’t sure if you’ll ever be able to forgive […]

long distance relationships

I’m Freaking Out & Reading Into Everything

Here’s a letter written to Sarah Jeanette (coauthor of Inspire His Love For You) and me.  It’s from Claudia, who is in a long distance relationship; however, any of us in local relationships could also be in her shoes.   Kristina & Sarah,   Hi.  I can’t tell you enough how thankful I am to have […]

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What To Do To Keep Your Man From Walking

An article I wrote for YourTango.com: Does the man you love remind you of water—dripping out of your hands the more you try to hold onto him?  I know how frustrating it can be to be madly in love with a guy who doesn’t reciprocate; it doesn’t matter how often you contact him, try to force […]

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The Secret Tool That Will Keep Him Interested

Article I write for YourTango.com   Is the man you love distancing himself from you?  Does something feel “off” about his behavior in your relationship?  If you feel chronically distraught about the state of things and are desperately trying to keep him interested, you may actually be pushing him further away.   If you are […]

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Goddess Love Help: Getting Grounded When He Pulls Back!

Goddess Love Help gets you feeling secure with yourself and your circumstances no matter what he’s doing!   So you’re dating a great guy and all of the sudden he needs space.  Maybe his distancing feels out-of-the-blue, or maybe you’ve been sensing that he’s been slowly pulling back.  What do you do? What do you […]

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5 Empowered Dating Tips For A Smart Woman: FINDING YOUR FEMININE

Dating Advice For Women ARTICLE I wrote for YourTango.com:   Too many women confuse feeling empowered with acting like a ball buster. Partaking in Empowered Dating is all about embracing and exposing more uncomfortable, vulnerable, tender feelings instead of smearing on globs of strong ‘n sassy (men find this challenging more than inviting). Empowered Dating is about being […]