get a man to love you

Don’t Freak Out! Stop Feeling Powerless When He Disappears

Article I wrote for YourTango.com:   He wooed and pursued you, and now he’s drifting away. But it’s not your fault and it’s not too late! Do you feel completely turned upside down, perplexed as to how the relationship you’re in went south? Was he once all about you, telling you that he could see […]

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Enchant Him With My eBook Red Rose Woman!

My ebook is selling like crazy and here’s part of the reason so many women love it…   Men get bored easily.  Most are always looking for a ‘better’ woman.  It’s actually kind of sad.  But this reality doesn’t have to be your reality.  My popular ebook Red Rose Woman shows women how to make […]

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Let My New Ebook Help You Get His Love Back!

The secret to getting his love back forever…   There is nothing worse than waiting my the phone for a man to call.  It makes you crazy.  It drains you, making it impossible to be happy in any other area of your life.  It feels like you’re an airplane pilot, waiting for air traffic control […]

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Dating Advice For Women: Knowing When To Be Optimistic About Love

Pop psychology loves to pump people full of romanticized faith:  poetic photographs with quotes preaching positivity on friends’ Facebook pages; the word ‘hope’ carved into pocket-size stones and spelled out in rhinestones on hundred-dollar bracelets.  And why not?  Why not encourage a little optimism, especially in love?  With a dismal divorce rate and couples having […]

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He Lost Interest. Now What?

Article I wrote for BlackLoveAdvice.com:   If your relationship has done a 180 and you are now pursuing the man you love instead of being adamantly pursued by him, I know exactly how you feel.  I dated a few guys who went from in love to missing in action.  If he lost interest in you, […]

relationship problems, dating advice for women

How To Spot & Release Emotionally Unavailable Men

An article I wrote for YourTango.com: A relationship when both partners are “all-in” is tough enough. But when your man is emotionally unavailable, things are so much harder. You’re committed to making things work, but he just won’t open up. A tell-tale sign of an emotionally unavailable man is a lack of empathy; check for […]

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How To Fix Unhealthy Relationship Patterns

If you’re scanning this website you’re probably not happy in your love life.  And you’re probably very angry with men as a result.  Maybe a man who you thought was one of the good guys recently dumped you.  Maybe your husband cheated on you and you aren’t sure if you’ll ever be able to forgive […]

long distance relationships

I’m Freaking Out & Reading Into Everything

Here’s a letter written to me from Claudia, who is in a long distance relationship; however, any of us in local relationships could also be in her shoes.   Hi.  I can’t tell you enough how thankful I am to have just bought your program.  My circumstance is very common, I think.  I am freaking out […]

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How To Get Him To Propose To You

Article I wrote for YourTango.com:  You love him and you know he’s the one; he says he loves you but admits he’s not sure if you’re his forever woman.  This not only hurts like hell; it’s maddening.  In your heart, you know that he loves you and would be miserable without you in his life, but […]

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How To Respond When He Needs Space

An article I wrote for YourTango.com: Is the man you love acting like a ghost in your relationship?  Maybe he’s even vocalized that he needs space? Perhaps he claims nothing’s wrong, but he just doesn’t return your texts and seems to be a whole lot busier than he was in the early stages of dating?   Before you […]