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He Lost Interest. Now What?

Article I wrote for BlackLoveAdvice.com:   If your relationship has done a 180 and you are now pursuing the man you love instead of being adamantly pursued by him, I know exactly how you feel.  I dated a few guys who went from in love to missing in action.  If he lost interest in you, […]

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I’m Freaking Out & Reading Into Everything

Here’s a letter written to me from Claudia, who is in a long distance relationship; however, any of us in local relationships could also be in her shoes.   Hi.  I can’t tell you enough how thankful I am to have just bought your program.  My circumstance is very common, I think.  I am freaking out […]

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Signs You Are Working Too Hard To Attract Men

If you’re out on the dating scene, seriously looking for love and commitment, you have to be very cautious about not having too much masculine energy in your dating relationships with men.  To attract men,  you must receive the attention and affection instead of give it.   When you have too much masculine energy, you […]

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Be A Man Magnet & Fondue Yourself

If you want to be a man magnet, you have to give him incentive to come closer.  By incentive I DON’T mean you coming closer to him by doing things for him, dressing like the woman you think he wants, etc.  I mean that you have to draw him in with your authenticity– almost by […]

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How To Emotionally Connect With A Man

Learning how to emotionally connect with a man is learning how to lead from your feminine energy and be available to calmly and confidently receive his feelings, thoughts and needs.   If you are at home, take a seat on your sofa and close your eyes.  Imagine that you are a cushion on that couch.  […]

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The Key To His Heart: Be A Sensitive & Sensual Woman

To be a sensitive and sensual woman you have to be interested in him, not strive to be interesting.   Stop trying to impress men (or that special man) with how smart, funny, fun, sexy and sexual you can be, and start being interested in knowing him on a deeper level.  The way to make […]

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How To Win A Man’s Heart Using ‘Emotion Seduction’

If you want to know how to win a man’s heart, you have to know how lead from your heart as a woman.  What I call “emotion seduction” is the only way to truly capture his love and devotion for years to come.   In an emotion seduction you are seducing a man’s heart instead […]

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How To Make A Man Love You: Stop Those “Backdoor Behaviors!”

A man isn’t going to fall in love with you for what you do for him, he’s going to fall for a woman who can inspire him to do more for her.  That happens when you have confidence and a sexy free spirit, not from your sugarcoated gestures that are meant to bribe his heartstrings… […]

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Do You Have Too Much Masculine Energy With Men?

Masculine energy screams at a man, “Rough me up, big boy, I dare you.  I can take it!”  And there is nothing romantic and loving about a man feeling that coming at him from a lady!  He may want to bang you, but get close to you emotionally?  Nope.   Look, masculine energy isn’t a bad thing […]

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What Attracts A Man To A Woman? Goddess Energy!

Wondering what attracts a man to a woman?  Men are vastly different as individuals but are very easy to understand as a collective whole. . Most straight men want to find that special woman who makes them feel like they can go out into the world and accomplish anything.  The average good guy wants a […]