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Dating Advice For Women: Knowing When To Be Optimistic About Love

Pop psychology loves to pump people full of romanticized faith:  poetic photographs with quotes preaching positivity on friends’ Facebook pages; the word ‘hope’ carved into pocket-size stones and spelled out in rhinestones on hundred-dollar bracelets.  And why not?  Why not encourage a little optimism, especially in love?  With a dismal divorce rate and couples having […]

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He Lost Interest. Now What?

Article I wrote for BlackLoveAdvice.com:   If your relationship has done a 180 and you are now pursuing the man you love instead of being adamantly pursued by him, I know exactly how you feel.  I dated a few guys who went from in love to missing in action.  If he lost interest in you, […]

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How To Fix Unhealthy Relationship Patterns

If you’re scanning this website you’re probably not happy in your love life.  And you’re probably very angry with men as a result.  Maybe a man who you thought was one of the good guys recently dumped you.  Maybe your husband cheated on you and you aren’t sure if you’ll ever be able to forgive […]

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How To Get Him To Propose To You

Article I wrote for YourTango.com:  You love him and you know he’s the one; he says he loves you but admits he’s not sure if you’re his forever woman.  This not only hurts like hell; it’s maddening.  In your heart, you know that he loves you and would be miserable without you in his life, but […]

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How To Respond When He Needs Space

An article I wrote for YourTango.com: Is the man you love acting like a ghost in your relationship?  Maybe he’s even vocalized that he needs space? Perhaps he claims nothing’s wrong, but he just doesn’t return your texts and seems to be a whole lot busier than he was in the early stages of dating?   Before you […]

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What To Do To Keep Your Man From Walking

An article I wrote for YourTango.com: Does the man you love remind you of water—dripping out of your hands the more you try to hold onto him?  I know how frustrating it can be to be madly in love with a guy who doesn’t reciprocate; it doesn’t matter how often you contact him, try to force […]

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The Secret Tool That Will Keep Him Interested

Article I write for YourTango.com   Is the man you love distancing himself from you?  Does something feel “off” about his behavior in your relationship?  If you feel chronically distraught about the state of things and are desperately trying to keep him interested, you may actually be pushing him further away.   If you are […]

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Goddess Love Help: Getting Grounded When He Pulls Back!

Goddess Love Help gets you feeling secure with yourself and your circumstances no matter what he’s doing!   So you’re dating a great guy and all of the sudden he needs space.  Maybe his distancing feels out-of-the-blue, or maybe you’ve been sensing that he’s been slowly pulling back.  What do you do? What do you […]

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Goddess Love Help: Is He Stringing You Along? What To Do…

There is nothing more devastating than feeling like the man you love is just keeping you around until he finds his love.  I’ve been in this situation two times.  Both men ended up marrying the women they left me to date.  I can’t tell you how much it stung to watch these guys walk away […]

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Signs You Are Working Too Hard To Attract Men

If you’re out on the dating scene, seriously looking for love and commitment, you have to be very cautious about not having too much masculine energy in your dating relationships with men.  To attract men,  you must receive the attention and affection instead of give it.   When you have too much masculine energy, you […]