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How To Spot & Release Emotionally Unavailable Men

An article I wrote for YourTango.com: A relationship when both partners are “all-in” is tough enough. But when your man is emotionally unavailable, things are so much harder. You’re committed to making things work, but he just won’t open up. A tell-tale sign of an emotionally unavailable man is a lack of empathy; check for […]

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How To Fix Unhealthy Relationship Patterns

If you’re scanning this website you’re probably not happy in your love life.  And you’re probably very angry with men as a result.  Maybe a man who you thought was one of the good guys recently dumped you.  Maybe your husband cheated on you and you aren’t sure if you’ll ever be able to forgive […]

long distance relationships

I’m Freaking Out & Reading Into Everything

Here’s a letter written to Sarah Jeanette (coauthor of Inspire His Love For You) and me.  It’s from Claudia, who is in a long distance relationship; however, any of us in local relationships could also be in her shoes.   Kristina & Sarah,   Hi.  I can’t tell you enough how thankful I am to have […]

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Why Do Men Vanish?

Article I wrote for DatingAdvice.com: According to Dove, the soap company, only four percent of women consider themselves beautiful. No wonder most of us are crushed and angry when a man disappears.   If a woman can’t view herself as beautiful, it makes sense that she would look to gain a more positive self-image from her […]

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Is He An Emotionally Available Man? Ask Him This!

Dating Advice For Women: Don’t waste precious baby-making time on a guy who fools you into thinking he’s an emotionally available man!   Love addicts make it hard to know if a guy is an emotionally available man: they wine you, dine you, tell you very intimate details of their past, they profess their undying […]

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Why I Choose Rori Raye’s Circular Dating!

I’m Changing My Mind About Rori Raye’s Circular Dating.  Why?  Because I’m tired of watching women fall in love only to end up dumped before marriage.   I’m a big Rori Raye fan.  I see hints of her teachings all over the internet and though she wasn’t the first, she was probably the most influential […]

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Goddess Love Help: Is He Stringing You Along? What To Do…

There is nothing more devastating than feeling like the man you love is just keeping you around until he finds his love.  I’ve been in this situation two times.  Both men ended up marrying the women they left me to date.  I can’t tell you how much it stung to watch these guys walk away […]

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Dating Is Like Dieting! Time To Think Smart About Emotionally Unavailable Men

My father once told me that the most important decision a woman can make in life is to find a good man and not let an emotionally unavailable man ruin my self-esteem and waste my time. I think my dad’s love help advice is something that both women and men can benefit from learning about […]

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Finding Mr. Right: From Emotionally Unavailable Men To Nice Guys

If you’re out there on the dating scene, finding Mr. Right can be an extra-difficult challenge for women with bad pickers.   If you have a propensity to pick emotionally unavailable men, it might be best to stop going for the guys who initially get you hot.  You are going to have to stop listening […]

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The Lie You’ve Been Told About What Men Need

It’s very common to hear relationship experts advising women to give men space in a relationship.  But space actually isn’t necessarily what men need from a woman.   I can’t tell you how many love gurus out there will tell you to appear unavailable and make a man have to work hard to get in […]