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Don’t Freak Out! Stop Feeling Powerless When He Disappears

Article I wrote for YourTango.com:   He wooed and pursued you, and now he’s drifting away. But it’s not your fault and it’s not too late! Do you feel completely turned upside down, perplexed as to how the relationship you’re in went south? Was he once all about you, telling you that he could see […]

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Let My New Ebook Help You Get His Love Back!

The secret to getting his love back forever…   There is nothing worse than waiting my the phone for a man to call.  It makes you crazy.  It drains you, making it impossible to be happy in any other area of your life.  It feels like you’re an airplane pilot, waiting for air traffic control […]

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When Men Stop Calling

Article I wrote for digitalromanticinc.com: . He was once head-over-heels for you and now he’s heeled it out of there, nowhere to be found.  I’ve been right where you are quite a few times and it always hurt like hell.  The self-doubt, the analyzing and rehashing of each moment of every date trying to figure […]

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He Lost Interest. Now What?

Article I wrote for BlackLoveAdvice.com:   If your relationship has done a 180 and you are now pursuing the man you love instead of being adamantly pursued by him, I know exactly how you feel.  I dated a few guys who went from in love to missing in action.  If he lost interest in you, […]

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I’m Freaking Out & Reading Into Everything

Here’s a letter written to me from Claudia, who is in a long distance relationship; however, any of us in local relationships could also be in her shoes.   Hi.  I can’t tell you enough how thankful I am to have just bought your program.  My circumstance is very common, I think.  I am freaking out […]

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How To Respond When He Needs Space

An article I wrote for YourTango.com: Is the man you love acting like a ghost in your relationship?  Maybe he’s even vocalized that he needs space? Perhaps he claims nothing’s wrong, but he just doesn’t return your texts and seems to be a whole lot busier than he was in the early stages of dating?   Before you […]

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Why Do Men Vanish?

Article I wrote for DatingAdvice.com: According to Dove, the soap company, only four percent of women consider themselves beautiful. No wonder most of us are crushed and angry when a man disappears.   If a woman can’t view herself as beautiful, it makes sense that she would look to gain a more positive self-image from her […]

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What To Do To Keep Your Man From Walking

An article I wrote for YourTango.com: Does the man you love remind you of water—dripping out of your hands the more you try to hold onto him?  I know how frustrating it can be to be madly in love with a guy who doesn’t reciprocate; it doesn’t matter how often you contact him, try to force […]

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4 Reasons Why Men Push Women Away

Article I wrote for SinglesWarehouse.com.uk: Have you found yourself on the other end of a dial tone lately– wondering why there’s only the lonely sound of crickets chirping in your dating relationship?  If you were once the target of a man’s pursuit, smothered with his affection and attention, only to get dumped and left wondering, […]

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The Secret Tool That Will Keep Him Interested

Article I write for YourTango.com   Is the man you love distancing himself from you?  Does something feel “off” about his behavior in your relationship?  If you feel chronically distraught about the state of things and are desperately trying to keep him interested, you may actually be pushing him further away.   If you are […]