Ways To Be Attractive To Men
Usually when we women think of ways to be attractive to men, we think of the outer shell—our physique, our style of wardrobe, the appeal of our personal assets like our home and car.
However, the truth is there are simple things you can do on the INSIDE that will reap faster, more effective results. Here are 3 things you can do that will add a li’l spice to your personality and up your appeal:
Ways to Be Attractive to Men: 1. Have a Hint of Vanity
A self-obsessed person is a total turn-off and good men RUN from beauty queens who desperately try to be the most gorgeous women in any room. However, men do like women who aren’t bashful about admiring themselves in a mirror now and then.
Most men love a woman who ENJOYS taking some time before a night on the town to primp and fuss over her hair, make-up and wardrobe. (By ENJOYS, I mean it’s a sweet indulgence of hers, not an opportunity to stress-out, try to look perfect and curse at the blow-dryer.)
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Most men adore a woman who relishes in sitting atop her man during sex– tussling her hair, as if she knows he thinks she (and her silky locks) are gloriously gorgeous.
Men crush on women who look male admirers in the eye and smile their way, as if quietly saying back, “I know I’m pretty, but I still very much appreciate your attention, sweetheart!”
Narcissus drowned because he fell in love with his own reflection in a river– now it’s your turn to put a li’l water in your lungs. Next time you look in a mirror or find yourself the focal point of a beautiful man’s stare, allow yourself to bask a hot minute in your own beauty.
Find this hard to do? Think of one thing about your face and/or body that you LOVE and then allow your self-confidence to brew in that area of your body like an excited energy. Once you feel that energy, let it spread throughout your whole body. A vibe that pours over with confidence and sexuality, will make him crave you.
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Ways to be Attractive to Men: 2. “Babydoll”-it up!
There’s something very sensual and sexy about women who like to throw around petnames like “Baby”, “Sweetheart”, “Hunny”, “Sugar”. Dishing out these li’l love-labels makes me feel more feminine and empowered as a sexy woman who likes to lighten up the mood of a conversation or make a man feel more intimately close to me than he actually is.
When you can address a man with words like sweetheart or a dollface, suddenly you are subtly inviting him to see your soft side, almost daring him to pluck at your heartstrings.
Now, don’t go crazy and turn into some redneck down in Panama City, Florida who works at Waffle House; “Dollface, you want a side of hash browns with that? Cause sweetheart, you can get that fruit salad instead, sugar?” (nothing against rednecks, Panama City or the Waffle House seeing as I am a Florida-born redneck who spent years waiting tables; however, you get the point). Just find some unassuming moments to slide a FEW endearing petnames into a casual conversation with a man and see what happens. After all, “Excuse me, could you pass my coat?” sounds a whole lot more attractive when you can stare the man in the eyes and say it with an intimate petname, “Excuse me, love, could you pass my coat?” One is a request, one is a provocation!
Ways to Be Attractive to Men: 3. Laugh at Yourself, Please!
Too many people take themselves way too seriously. Are you one of them?
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If you are, men aren’t going to be attracted to you like they would if you weren’t so preoccupied with your self-image.
When someone is too uptight and hypersensitive, they walk and talk like a real stick in the mud. Think about it—right now pretend you are an actor and walk around the room like you are playing the part of a broad who takes herself too seriously. Your bum will probably clench and your mouth tense-up. Well, that’s what happens when you worry too much about your own self-importance—you get rigid. Men don’t like rigidity in a lady, they want to think about THEIR rigidity—the kind that’s caused by your soft, goofy, silly, flirty and sweet playfulness turning them ON!
So think right now of four self-deprecating thoughts and find a way to make those thoughts funny. So what you have cellulite! Find a way to laugh at it. I always jiggle my bum in the mirror and remind my dimply cheeks that they give the cobblestone streets of Old Town a run for their money! And does my man know I do this? Yes. He thinks I’m hysterical and calls me “an edible goof.”
So, what’s your self-deprecating joke?
When you can take yourself less seriously—you free yourself up to be fully present with a man in the moment, instead of worried about the critical thoughts a man might be having about you. Plus, you’ll look uber-confident in moments when he does slip up and comes across critical of your flaws, like when his teasing turns harsh.
Being attractive to a man is sooo much more than a pretty face and a hot body. It’s about your classiness and confidence; it’s about the energy you give off when you feel a certain way about yourself! I’m a firm believer that Julia Roberts became the desirable movie star that she did because she is a woman who knows exactly when to smile wide and twinkle those big browns at a man’s admiration and when to laugh at herself (we all know her guffaw) like the self-proclaimed goof-up she is.
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So go out and find YOUR inner Julia… darlin’!
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